2 POWERFUL Ways to Silence Your Inner Critic
Tired of waiting for the industry to notice you? It’s time to stop feeling invisible and start making waves in your acting career. In this blog, I’ll show you how to turn your inner critic into your biggest asset with two powerful methods: The Three C’s and The CAST Method. These tools have transformed my career, and they can do the same for you. Ready to take control of your mindset and your career? Let’s dive in!
Actions that Get You MORE Auditions
We’re all juggling a million things, right? Whether you’re balancing acting with a day job or managing family and side gigs, time feels tight. Even for me, as a full-time actor, I’m still wearing all the hats—wife, mom, dog mom, coach, podcaster. So, how do we make time to thrive in our acting careers? The truth is, you have to create that time, and treat it like gold.
In this post, I break down why consistent, dedicated time to both the business and creative sides of your career is key—and why focusing 80% of your energy on hard activities (like networking and branding) will give you the results you're after.
Trust me, the magic happens when you get comfortable being uncomfortable. Ready to flip the script on your career?
How to Balance Being a Parent and an Acting Career
Here’s a little taste of my recent conversation on Keeping Up With Chaos with Gabby, Angela, and Joslyn. We dove into the real-life struggles of balancing acting ambitions with family life, and trust me, it’s a constant juggling act! We talked about everything from handling rejection (which actors know all too well) to solo parenting while chasing your dreams. One key lesson? Don’t wait for the perfect moment—take imperfect action and keep moving forward, even when life gets chaotic. Curious to hear more? Catch the full episode for all the juicy details!
The BEST Side Hustle for Actors
After a 16-year break from acting, I knew I couldn’t just jump back in without a plan. I needed something flexible that would help me get back on my feet—and that’s when I started organizing workshops. What started as a way to sharpen my skills turned into a complete game-changer. Not only did I improve my craft, but I also built a supportive community of actors, made some amazing industry connections, and even created a steady source of income.
Now, I’m sharing how workshops helped me take control of my career and how you can do the same. Whether you’re looking to boost your skills, earn extra income, or just stay engaged during downtime, this approach might be exactly what you need. Trust me, it’s easier than you think!
3 Proven Strategies to Get More Auditions
Ever feel like you’re waiting around for that perfect acting role, but nothing’s really happening? I’ve been there, and I know how frustrating it can be. But here’s the thing: actors who succeed aren’t waiting for luck—they’re out there creating their own opportunities. It’s all about shifting your mindset. I’m talking about building an achiever’s mindset, focusing on the business side of acting, and mastering the art of pitching yourself. When you take control of your career, amazing things start to happen. Let’s talk about how you can make that shift!
Why Actors Should Ditch Websites and Embrace EPKs
I often hear actors talk about how important it is to have a personal website. But here’s the thing—I’ve found that it’s not always the best move. Instead of spending time on a website, I discovered that creating an Electronic Pitch Kit (EPK) is way more effective. An EPK lets you showcase your best work in a focused way, without the distractions that a website can bring.
Switching to an EPK has made a big difference for me, and it might be just what you need too.
How to Unlock MORE Auditions Today!
I’ve got to tell you, one of the most underrated skills in acting isn’t about delivering lines or nailing emotions—it’s pitching yourself. Yep, pitching. And no, I’m not talking about baseball. We’re talking about getting yourself in front of the right people who can change your career.
Whether you’re trying to land a new agent, reminding casting directors that you’re still around, or just having a casual chat with a director at a festival, how you pitch yourself can open some serious doors. Trust me, I learned this the hard way after restarting my career at 47. I had to figure out how to pitch myself all over again, and let me tell you, it was a game changer.
If you’re not sure how to pitch yourself—don’t worry! I’ve got you covered. From mastering your hard and soft pitches to knowing how to keep that connection alive, I’m going to walk you through it. It’s all about getting yourself into the rooms that matter and making sure people remember your name.
Why Your Acting Career is Stuck... and How to Get Unstuck
Ever feel like your acting career is stuck while others race ahead? I’ve been there. It’s not about your talent—it’s about your strategy. Your career needs two wings to fly: one for your skills, the other for your brand. I know the business side isn’t fun, but it’s crucial.
One of my clients, Heike, struggled for years before she figured out her brand. Two weeks later, she booked three TV roles! That’s the power of getting it right.
So, if you’re feeling stuck, it’s time to rethink your approach. You’ve got this!
The Best Way to Get Roles After 40
Here’s the thing: If you’re over 40 and wondering if it’s too late to jump into acting, I’m here to tell you it’s absolutely not. I know the thoughts that run through your mind—"Isn’t this a young person’s game?" or "Have I missed my chance?" But let me tell you, all the life you’ve lived up until now? That’s your superpower as an actor. The emotional depth, the experiences, the understanding of what it means to be human—these are the things that will set you apart and give you an edge.
When I returned to acting in my late 40s, I had those same insecurities. I thought my age might hold me back. But once I embraced it, something magical happened. I realized that everything I had lived through gave me layers, depth—something younger actors don’t have yet. So, don’t think for a second that your age is a barrier. It’s actually one of your greatest strengths.
You Are One Audition Away...
You know, as actors, we're always told we’re just one audition away from a life-changing role. And it’s true! But the real magic happens when you understand what makes you unique and lean into that with your branding and mindset. Once casting directors can see the real you, the bookings start coming. Trust me, I’ve been there. It’s all about clarity—both in how you present yourself and how you think about your career. So, if you feel stuck, don’t worry. You’ve got everything you need within you to shift things in your favor.
How to Post on Social Media Without Bragging: H.O.P.E. for Actors
Posting on social media as an actor can feel like walking a tightrope—you want to share your journey without coming across as braggy. That’s where the H.O.P.E. method comes in: Help One Person Every Day. It’s all about shifting your focus from self-promotion to providing value to others. Plus, organizing your posts into daily buckets—like Monday Mentions or Friday Fun—makes it easy to keep your content fresh and engaging. And remember, if you're working under an NDA, it's better to be safe than sorry. When in doubt, save those posts for later and share something that’s both safe and fun!
A Conversation with Director Kim Farrant
In this enlightening episode, I discuss with Kim Farrant her journey from a dancer to a renowned filmmaker, her unconventional upbringing, and her incredible insights on navigating the fine line between fear and instinct. We explore the impact of emotional responses like fight, flight, fawn, and freeze in acting, and share Kim’s valuable advice on recognizing and overcoming these reactions to enhance your performance.
Acting on Instinct: Raw Childhood Confessions You Haven't Heard Before
In my recent conversation with Rena Friedman Watts on The Better Call Daddy Show, I shared some valuable insights for actors. We talked about taking imperfect action, continuous training, and the importance of personal branding. Plus, I reminisced about my teenage years when I ran away from a boarding school and hitchhiked to California with just $10. This adventure shaped my resilience and daring spirit, qualities I carry into my acting career today.
AI: Should Actors Be Worried?
Can artificial intelligence be your next acting coach? I recently put ChatGPT to the test with two takes of a challenging scene. I uploaded the scenes and received thoughtful feedback on my emotional delivery, pacing, and subtext. Though uploading the scenes had its frustrations and ChatGPT's insights were a mixed bag, it consistently recognized which take was stronger. If you're seeking another perspective on your self tapes, it might be worth a try—but always trust your own instincts and a trusted human eye.
How to Get An Agent You Love
Picture this: you've just submitted yourself to all the agents at your dream agencies and started receiving those fantastic emails from agents wanting to meet you. Congratulations, they're interested! But this is just the beginning. Now Comes the fun part: doing research and asking the right questions to find out if they're the right fit for you. We’ll delve into how to use IMDb Pro and other resources to check their credentials, and I'll share some key strategies from my course on landing multiple interviews.
Mastering Agent Meetings: 15 Must-Ask Questions for Actors
Imagine having an agent who's not just a rep, but a real partner—someone who gets your vision, champions your talent, and works with you as an equal. I'll be sharing 15 must-ask questions that will help you turn crucial meetings with agents into empowering conversations. Learn how to set up a meaningful two-way relationship, prepare your questions, and feel confident during your meeting.
Talent Link Vs. The EPK
What if I told you there was a way to land your perfect agent with ease and convenience, but it might not be the silver bullet that you think it is. Imagine your profile reaching literally hundreds of agents, but still getting overlooked. Today we are diving into Actors Access Talent Link versus the EPK and discovering which one can truly make you shine. Discover how each method can impact your journey as an actor, and get insights on preparing your materials, from headshots to demo reels. Discover the secrets to standing out from the crowd and achieving your acting dreams.
From Overlooked to Booked
Ever felt like your online presence isn't doing you justice as an actor? Imagine if you could showcase yourself to industry pros in the best light possible. Today, I’m unveiling an often overlooked tool that gives you an unfair advantage: the EPK (Electronic Pitch Kit). It presents the best of you, distraction-free, showing where you want to go, not where you’ve been. I'll share why typical actor websites can hurt more than help and give you tips to create an EPK that truly shines. If you're serious about elevating your career, book a free appointment with me to see if my program is the right fit for you. Let's make you stand out for all the right reasons!
The Quantum Physics of Acting Success
Your dreams have already created the possibility for the outcome that you desire. Your mindset is everything; step up and be the person you want to become. When I restarted my acting career at 47 in Germany, I faced many challenges but didn't let anything stop me. I realized that to achieve my goals, I had to overcome my limiting beliefs and embrace the things that made me unique. I became a life and career coach to help myself and discovered the ABCs of a thriving acting career: an achiever's mindset, business savvy, and craft mastery. Alongside, I developed the five pillars: mindset, branding, marketing, networking, and community.
To successfully navigate your acting career, start with a strong mindset. Understand business strategies like branding and marketing, and continue improving your craft. Recognize the importance of outside perspective, adjust your strategy, and always be willing to change. Success doesn't come from talent alone; it requires an understanding of both craft and business. Believe in yourself, take the necessary actions, and remember, change starts from within.
How to Book More Auditions with Minimal Effort
If I told you there’s a simple trick to boost your chances of landing those dream auditions by 42%, would you believe me? It sounds wild, but it’s true—and it’s as simple as writing down your goals. Crazy, right? And here’s the thing: the real magic happens when you share those goals with someone who’s going to hold you accountable. Whether it’s a mentor or a buddy, having someone in your corner keeps you on track. Trust me, this strategy works wonders. I’ve seen it firsthand with actors like Stella, who’s making her comeback in her 40s. She’s crushing her goals by following this exact process, and you can too!