2 POWERFUL Ways to Silence Your Inner Critic
Tired of waiting for the industry to notice you? It’s time to stop feeling invisible and start making waves in your acting career. In this blog, I’ll show you how to turn your inner critic into your biggest asset with two powerful methods: The Three C’s and The CAST Method. These tools have transformed my career, and they can do the same for you. Ready to take control of your mindset and your career? Let’s dive in!
Actions that Get You MORE Auditions
We’re all juggling a million things, right? Whether you’re balancing acting with a day job or managing family and side gigs, time feels tight. Even for me, as a full-time actor, I’m still wearing all the hats—wife, mom, dog mom, coach, podcaster. So, how do we make time to thrive in our acting careers? The truth is, you have to create that time, and treat it like gold.
In this post, I break down why consistent, dedicated time to both the business and creative sides of your career is key—and why focusing 80% of your energy on hard activities (like networking and branding) will give you the results you're after.
Trust me, the magic happens when you get comfortable being uncomfortable. Ready to flip the script on your career?
How to Balance Being a Parent and an Acting Career
Here’s a little taste of my recent conversation on Keeping Up With Chaos with Gabby, Angela, and Joslyn. We dove into the real-life struggles of balancing acting ambitions with family life, and trust me, it’s a constant juggling act! We talked about everything from handling rejection (which actors know all too well) to solo parenting while chasing your dreams. One key lesson? Don’t wait for the perfect moment—take imperfect action and keep moving forward, even when life gets chaotic. Curious to hear more? Catch the full episode for all the juicy details!
3 Proven Strategies to Get More Auditions
Ever feel like you’re waiting around for that perfect acting role, but nothing’s really happening? I’ve been there, and I know how frustrating it can be. But here’s the thing: actors who succeed aren’t waiting for luck—they’re out there creating their own opportunities. It’s all about shifting your mindset. I’m talking about building an achiever’s mindset, focusing on the business side of acting, and mastering the art of pitching yourself. When you take control of your career, amazing things start to happen. Let’s talk about how you can make that shift!
Why Actors Should Ditch Websites and Embrace EPKs
I often hear actors talk about how important it is to have a personal website. But here’s the thing—I’ve found that it’s not always the best move. Instead of spending time on a website, I discovered that creating an Electronic Pitch Kit (EPK) is way more effective. An EPK lets you showcase your best work in a focused way, without the distractions that a website can bring.
Switching to an EPK has made a big difference for me, and it might be just what you need too.
How to Unlock MORE Auditions Today!
I’ve got to tell you, one of the most underrated skills in acting isn’t about delivering lines or nailing emotions—it’s pitching yourself. Yep, pitching. And no, I’m not talking about baseball. We’re talking about getting yourself in front of the right people who can change your career.
Whether you’re trying to land a new agent, reminding casting directors that you’re still around, or just having a casual chat with a director at a festival, how you pitch yourself can open some serious doors. Trust me, I learned this the hard way after restarting my career at 47. I had to figure out how to pitch myself all over again, and let me tell you, it was a game changer.
If you’re not sure how to pitch yourself—don’t worry! I’ve got you covered. From mastering your hard and soft pitches to knowing how to keep that connection alive, I’m going to walk you through it. It’s all about getting yourself into the rooms that matter and making sure people remember your name.
Why Your Acting Career is Stuck... and How to Get Unstuck
Ever feel like your acting career is stuck while others race ahead? I’ve been there. It’s not about your talent—it’s about your strategy. Your career needs two wings to fly: one for your skills, the other for your brand. I know the business side isn’t fun, but it’s crucial.
One of my clients, Heike, struggled for years before she figured out her brand. Two weeks later, she booked three TV roles! That’s the power of getting it right.
So, if you’re feeling stuck, it’s time to rethink your approach. You’ve got this!
The Best Way to Get Roles After 40
Here’s the thing: If you’re over 40 and wondering if it’s too late to jump into acting, I’m here to tell you it’s absolutely not. I know the thoughts that run through your mind—"Isn’t this a young person’s game?" or "Have I missed my chance?" But let me tell you, all the life you’ve lived up until now? That’s your superpower as an actor. The emotional depth, the experiences, the understanding of what it means to be human—these are the things that will set you apart and give you an edge.
When I returned to acting in my late 40s, I had those same insecurities. I thought my age might hold me back. But once I embraced it, something magical happened. I realized that everything I had lived through gave me layers, depth—something younger actors don’t have yet. So, don’t think for a second that your age is a barrier. It’s actually one of your greatest strengths.
You Are One Audition Away...
You know, as actors, we're always told we’re just one audition away from a life-changing role. And it’s true! But the real magic happens when you understand what makes you unique and lean into that with your branding and mindset. Once casting directors can see the real you, the bookings start coming. Trust me, I’ve been there. It’s all about clarity—both in how you present yourself and how you think about your career. So, if you feel stuck, don’t worry. You’ve got everything you need within you to shift things in your favor.
How to Post on Social Media Without Bragging: H.O.P.E. for Actors
Posting on social media as an actor can feel like walking a tightrope—you want to share your journey without coming across as braggy. That’s where the H.O.P.E. method comes in: Help One Person Every Day. It’s all about shifting your focus from self-promotion to providing value to others. Plus, organizing your posts into daily buckets—like Monday Mentions or Friday Fun—makes it easy to keep your content fresh and engaging. And remember, if you're working under an NDA, it's better to be safe than sorry. When in doubt, save those posts for later and share something that’s both safe and fun!
A Conversation with Director Kim Farrant
In this enlightening episode, I discuss with Kim Farrant her journey from a dancer to a renowned filmmaker, her unconventional upbringing, and her incredible insights on navigating the fine line between fear and instinct. We explore the impact of emotional responses like fight, flight, fawn, and freeze in acting, and share Kim’s valuable advice on recognizing and overcoming these reactions to enhance your performance.
Acting on Instinct: Raw Childhood Confessions You Haven't Heard Before
In my recent conversation with Rena Friedman Watts on The Better Call Daddy Show, I shared some valuable insights for actors. We talked about taking imperfect action, continuous training, and the importance of personal branding. Plus, I reminisced about my teenage years when I ran away from a boarding school and hitchhiked to California with just $10. This adventure shaped my resilience and daring spirit, qualities I carry into my acting career today.
How to Book More Auditions with Minimal Effort
If I told you there’s a simple trick to boost your chances of landing those dream auditions by 42%, would you believe me? It sounds wild, but it’s true—and it’s as simple as writing down your goals. Crazy, right? And here’s the thing: the real magic happens when you share those goals with someone who’s going to hold you accountable. Whether it’s a mentor or a buddy, having someone in your corner keeps you on track. Trust me, this strategy works wonders. I’ve seen it firsthand with actors like Stella, who’s making her comeback in her 40s. She’s crushing her goals by following this exact process, and you can too!
Equipment for on the go auditions and selftapes
When I’m on the go, I keep my recording setup super simple—just my phone, a tripod, and a microphone. Seriously, that’s it! I’m not one of those actors who packs an entire studio with backdrops and lighting gear. I’ve found that as long as the lighting is good (hello, natural light by the window!), and my performance is solid, no one cares if I’m recording in a hotel room or at home. The focus is on you, not your surroundings. So, keep it light, keep it easy, and trust that your talent will shine through.
Starting an Acting Career After 40
If you’re over 40 and still dreaming of an acting career, let me tell you—it’s not too late. I’ve been there, and I know what it’s like to put your dreams on hold. But here’s the good news: your life experience is your secret weapon. Everything you’ve lived through gives you an edge that younger actors just don’t have. But, as I’ve learned, talent alone isn’t enough. You need a strategy too—think of it like a bird: one wing is your talent, the other is the business savvy you need to make it work. Together, they help you soar.
I’ve helped so many people reignite their acting careers after 40, and I know you can do it too. So, if you’re ready to take that leap and finally go after the career you’ve always wanted, I’d love for you to check out my free masterclass where I dive into the exact framework that’s worked for me and others. It’s your time to shine, and there’s no better moment than now.
Empowering Actors- Mastering Marketing and Branding with Sarah Matsui Colby
I recently chatted with Sarah Matsui Colby, an actor and marketing strategist, about how actors can really stand out by being their true selves. Sarah has this great concept called your "energetic signature"—basically, that unique vibe you bring into a room—and she explains how to use that to shape everything from your one-sheet to your EPK. She also drops some amazing tips on avoiding common marketing pitfalls, and even shares the story of how one gutsy move got her an audition for Superstore! If you’ve been feeling stuck with self-promotion, Sarah’s insights are full of practical advice and inspiration to help you take charge of your career.
Actors: How to Reset Your Mindset in 3 Easy Steps - Part 3
When my acting career felt stuck, I realized it wasn’t about talent or connections—it was my mindset holding me back. In this series, I’m sharing how I reset my mindset and kicked those limiting beliefs to the curb. In this final part, I dive into the importance of clarity, taking strategic action, and embracing what makes you unique. If you missed Parts 1 and 2, I’d recommend checking them out—they set the stage for everything we’re talking about here.
Actors: How to Reset Your Mindset in 3 Easy Steps - Part 1
I know how frustrating it can be when your acting career isn’t where you want it to be, despite all the hard work. Sometimes, it’s not the industry or your agent holding you back—it’s your own beliefs. Those quiet doubts like “I’m not good enough” or “I’ll never make it” can quietly sabotage your success. Here’s how shifting your mindset can help you break free from those limiting beliefs and start moving your career forward.
Want More and Better Auditions? Do These 3 Things
If you’re looking to land more and better auditions, here’s my take: First, I make sure I’m clear about what I bring to the table—this clarity makes it easier for casting directors to see me in roles that fit me perfectly. I don’t just rely on agents and casting directors because they’re not the ultimate decision-makers. Instead, I connect with producers, directors, and other industry pros. I also focus on understanding my unique brand and the themes that resonate with me.
The Do's and Don'ts for Networking as an Actor
I delve into the essentials of networking as an actor. Joining me is Seamus Sargent, an actor with a rich background and impressive portfolio. We discuss the importance of forging genuine connections in the industry, the value of perseverance, and how to stand out through authentic relationships. Whether you're struggling with self-doubt or looking for proactive steps to advance your career, this conversation offers valuable insights and practical tips to help you navigate the world of acting.